Un giorno, un'Amica mi disse:
"Nina è arrivata da voi perchè ha bisogno di due genitori con le palle".
Da quel giorno la voglio vivere così.
Dato che non c'è un "perchè" e i "se" e i "ma" lasciano il tempo che trovano, l'unico modo per sopravvivere è usare il cervello per ingannare il cuore.
Cercare di guardare le cose con un po' di distacco, di lucidità, di razionalità.
Far finta che la Microba sia stata "assegnata" a noi perchè meritevoli, di aver vinto questa riffa tra altri milioni di genitori...
"Chi pensa di essere in grado di aiutare questa bimba speciale? Guardate che è "fuori standard" e a volte sarà veramente dura"
"NOOOOOIIIII, la vogliamo NOOOOIIIIIII !!!!!"
"Sicuri, sicuri, sicuri ?"
"Sicurissimi ! Quando il gioco si fa duro, i duri iniziano a giocare, non si dice così? Accettiamo la
"Ok, allora, andata"
"...che culo..."
Non c'è giorno in cui io non pensi alle parole di questa Amica.
Grazie Zia Dany.
Ma ha detto proprio "palle"? ;-)
RispondiEliminaNo, in realtà mi pare di ricordare che avesse detto "2 coglioni così" (forse riferito ai genitori ???) ma siccome la Zia Dany è una Signora, sicuramente è la mia memoria farlocca che fa cilecca...quindi ho edulcorato la frase !
RispondiEliminaah ah ah ah ah ah ah ah
Da quel poco che vedo non aveva tutti i torti-:)
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One day a girlfriend told me . . .
RispondiElimina"Nina was given to you only because she needed two parents ... with balls!!!".
Since than I want to live like that. There is no "because"; ifs and buts are useless, the only way to survive is to use your brain to cheat your heart. Look to things with rationality, lucidity, keeping distance.
Act as if the Microbe was assigned to us because of our merits, as if we won the lottery among million of parents...
"Who thinks to be able to help this special baby girl? be aware, she is out of standard, and sometimes it will be really tough!"
"Here We areeeeeeee! Weeeeee want her!!!!!!!!"
"Are you sure, sure, sure?"
"We Are! We are very sure! When the going gets tough, the tough get going! right?! we accept the bad lu... ehm, we accept the challenge!!!"
"Ok, it's yours!"
"...How lucky are we ..."
No day passes without me thinking of the words of this Girlfriend,
Thank you Auntie Dany!!
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